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Beyond Worry: Anxiety Disorders
By Edel Jarboe

Ordinarily, anxiety is necessary for our survival. It helps us to focus on the task at hand, motivates us to overcome procrastination, and to avoid danger. Almost everyone experiences some form of anxiety as we go about our daily lives. However, when we have severe anxiety, we are incapable of reasoning our way out of the panic and find ourselves at its mercy. In other words, there is a marked difference between feeling occasionally shy or nervous and being literally crippled by fear.

Unlike the normal stress (fight or flight) response that is brought about by a real threat or challenge, severe anxiety is characterized by excessive feelings of worry and fear that are out of proportion to the situation. These feelings are more intense and last longer than normal feelings of anxiety. Because excessive anxiety can trap the person in patterns of avoidance and withdrawal, anxiety disorders get in the way of living a normal everyday life and affect a sufferers work, family, relationships, and well-being.

Unfortunately, anxiety disorders often coexist with other disorders, such as depression, substance abuse, or another anxiety disorder. For this reason, people with untreated anxiety are at higher risk for suicide, severe depression and for self-medication with alcohol or drugs. Anxiety disorder sufferers are also at higher risk for job loss and divorce.

General Anxiety Disorder (GAD)

General anxiety disorder affects about 10 million Americans and is typified by an almost constant state of worry, tension, or anxiety about almost everything in a sufferer's life including health, family, work, or money. While it is normal to worry about these things, the extent to which a GAD sufferer worries is to a much greater extreme. This disorder usually occurs in the early 20's although in some cases it can start in childhood or later in life.

Someone suffering from generalized anxiety disorder finds it difficult to control their worry and has three or more of the following symptoms occur over a six-month period:
- feeling on edge or very restless
- difficulty concentrating
- irritability
- muscle tension
- easily fatigued
- sleep disturbances

Panic Disorder

Panic disorder is characterized by recurring attacks of anxiety or terror, which usually last for a specific period of time, for example for 15 to 30 minutes. According to the National Institute of Mental Health, approximately 2.4 million Americans ages 18 to 54 suffers from panic disorder in a given year. A diagnosis of panic disorder is made when a person experiences at least two repeated, unexpected attacks followed by at least one month of worrying that another panic attack will strike. A panic attack consists of a person feeling extreme fear or discomfort along with at least four of the following symptoms:
- rapid heart beat
- sweating
- shakiness
- shortness of breath
- choking feeling
- dizziness
- nausea
- feelings of unreality
- numbness
- hot flashes or chills
- chest pain
- fear of dying
- fear of going insane

Social Anxiety Disorder

Social anxiety disorder is an extreme fear of public embarrassment or being judged by others. This disorder typically begins in childhood or early adolescence and rarely develops after age 25. According to the National Institute of Mental Health, this condition affects as many as approximately 5.3 million Americans a year.

Extreme shyness and discomfort in social settings characterizes social anxiety disorder. Typical symptoms include frequent blushing, shortness of breath, trembling, rapid heartbeat, and profuse sweating. These symptoms can vary in severity from mild and bearable to full-blown panic attacks. Moreover, this fear of being publicly scrutinized and humiliated can range from a limited or specific social phobia such as eating a meal in a restaurant to a generalized social phobia where a person's anxiety extends to a variety of social settings.

What Causes Anxiety Disorders?

A combination of biochemical, genetic, psychological, and environmental factors appear to contribute to the development of anxiety disorders. Researchers believe that most people with anxiety disorders seem to have a biological vulnerability to stress, which makes them more susceptible to environmental stimuli. Moreover, studies have shown that an imbalance of chemical messengers in the brain (neurotransmitters) may contribute to anxiety disorders. In fact, some experts have identified a genetic defect that affects dopamine, an important neurotransmitter, which appears to cause a syndrome that includes migraine headaches, anxiety, and depression. Studies have also shown that about 20-25% of close relatives of people with panic disorders experience this disorder. Finally, psychological and environmental factors such as low self-esteem, poor coping skills, and long-term exposure to abuse, violence, or poverty can also make a person more susceptible to anxiety disorders.

Treating Anxiety Disorders

For anxiety disorders, the most effective treatment seems to be a combination of antidepressant drugs and cognitive-behavior therapy. Paxil, for example, is the latest antidepressant drug to be used to treat social anxiety disorder (often experienced as extreme shyness), panic disorder, depression, and obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD). Other drugs used in the treatment of anxiety disorders include Prozac and Zoloft. However, it should be pointed out that it usually takes two to four weeks before an antidepressant medication is effective.

The focus of cognitive therapy is to alter the sufferer's catastrophic thinking about what others are thinking about them and to address the real consequences of a flawed performance. It encourages sufferers to put things in perspective by asking themselves "What if I do have a panic? What is the worst thing that can happen?" The focus of the second half of cognitive-behavior therapy, the behavioral part, is to gradually expose the sufferer to the circumstances that can trigger their anxiety. It teaches them techniques such as deep breathing, affirmations, and progressive relaxation in order to get them in the habit of focusing on the present moment rather than on the dreaded imaginary outcome. Moreover, a healthy lifestyle that includes exercise (such as aerobics and yoga), adequate sleep, and nutrition has also been shown to help to reduce the impact of anxiety attacks.

According to the American Psychiatric Association, anxiety disorders are the most common of emotional disorders affecting more than 20 million Americans (approximately one in nine) a year. However, only about a quarter of those who experience this problem seek help. Many people with anxiety disorders try to hide what is happening to them because they feel a sense of shame over their perceived lack of control. Their anxiety becomes an emotional, physical, and psychological prison. Although there is help and hope available, reaching out for this help may be especially hard for the anxiety sufferer. If you, or someone you know, are suffering from an anxiety disorder, please do not be afraid to get help. You don't have to suffer in silence.

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Also see: Conquer Stress, Depression and Anxiety Naturally and Permanently: No matter how long you've suffered or what you've tried before.

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Edel Jarboe is the founder of Self Help for Her.com, an online self-help magazine helping you create a better life. She also publishes a free weekly newsletter, which features advice on goal setting, stress management, coping with difficult people, and overcoming obstacles: Subscribe here and receive a FREE stress report.

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