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WHAT MAKES A
MARRIAGE WORK
Copyright 2001, Rose Smith
Yes, opposites do attract, however the marriages that
work the best are with couples who have similar values, beliefs and interests.
That's not to say you should marry a carbon copy of yourself - that would
get boring and tedious very fast - (truly, how many of us want to marry
ourselves?), but having a mate that we know will work toward the same goals
and has the same values, will go a long way in keeping your marriage intact.
Having separate interests is also a big plus. While is wonderful to spend
a lot of time together, it's the quality that counts, not the quantity. True,
there are many couples who enjoy being together day and night - in fact,
my own marriage is much like that. We love to be and do many things together,
however we also have our own separate interests as well. Some time apart
is good for the majority of couples. It gives you new and fresh outlooks
on your lives, not to mention giving you both something to talk about that's
apart from your daily lives and interests.
Of course, it goes without saying that communication is probably at the top
of the list. Begin able to discuss dreams, goals and what's in your heart
if very important, as well as having someone who will listen closely to what
you say and having some empathy as to how your feel. That's not to say that
your partner wants to hear constant complaints about one thing or another.
Yes, we all need "a shoulder to cry on" occasionally, just don't make a habit
of it.
Intimacy is also a very important part of keeping a marriage alive and happy.
And intimacy doesn't mean just sex. Being close, holding hands, relaxing
in each other's arms, speaking of your hopes and dreams of the future, helps
to build a close relationship and trust of your partner.
And don't think sex has to become boring. Spice it up by greeting your mate
wearing just a raincoat, or kidnap your partner and take them to a hotel
overnight. Plan dates and dress sexy...find ways to add excitement to your
love life. And remember, sex doesn't just start in the bedroom. Gazing at
your lover across a crowded room with a "come hither" look or whispering
in his or her ear of what you'd like to do later can go a long way in keeping
the fire roaring in the bedroom.
BY: Rose Smith is the author of How to Create a Beautiful Medieval Wedding
and several other wedding booklets. Visit Wedding Themes and More for great
ideas on theme weddings, favor ideas, budget tips, honeymoon destinations,
decorations and more.
http://www.wedthemes.com
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